|The hat says Chocloholic. : )|
Food for thought. I read that if you expect something to happen a certain way, and then it doesn't, you will no doubt be disappointed. I've really noticed this lately. For example, I may expect my husband to do the laundry since it is his day off and then I come home to find he has not, then I get mad. If I didn't expect it, then I would not be mad. Of course if he did do the laundry I would be pleasantly surprised. As a result of reading about this, I've tried not to expect things. It is a very difficult task b/c I think most of us do this on a daily basis without realizing it. When it comes to work, we always expect people to do their jobs. You can remove your expectations but still have consequences for people not doing their job. Removing your expectations just removes the emotional part.
I hope that makes sense. Au revior!